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Unlock Your Potential: Embrace Simplification and Success

Anne's Recipe for Success: The Power of Simplification

Picture this: the joy of leaving a friend's house, not just satisfied but truly fulfilled, after relishing a delightful meal that leaves you smiling from ear to ear.

That's the kind of satisfaction my friend Anne delivers every time I visit her.

Her secret?

She affectionately refers to herself as "Dr. Touch Up," attributing the magic of her cooking prowess to Trader Joe's products.

According to her, Trader Joe's offers the best basic ingredients, and she adds her unique flair with one or two simple staple ingredients from her pantry and refrigerator.

01. Anne's Culinary Philosophy

Anne's culinary philosophy, centered on this straightforward two-step technique, has consistently delivered exceptional results.

I vividly remember a Thanksgiving when I faced the daunting task of preparing mashed potatoes for 30 guests. With time running short, I reached out to Anne for advice.

Her solution?

Trader Joe's frozen mashed potatoes, elevated by her one mysterious "magic" ingredient.

I'm sorry, but I can’t tell you what that is, as she has sworn me to secrecy.

I followed her guidance, which was so easy, and to my amazement, the mashed potatoes became the talk of the feast. No one had ever said anything about the potatoes that I peeled, boiled, added butter, cream, salt, pepper, and garlic, and then mashed, mashed, and mashed.

It was a revelation: simplicity could indeed yield extraordinary outcomes.



02. Applying Anne's Approach Beyond the Kitchen

Reflecting on this experience, I began to apply Anne's approach to other aspects of my life.

Like crafting a Trader Joe's dish, I examined how to simplify my endeavors and add my unique touch to achieve success.

I discovered a winning formula by distilling ideas and projects to their essence and infusing them with my brand's essence.

A. The Power of Simplification in Leadership

As an executive and leadership coach, I guide my clients through this process of simplification and self-discovery.

By asking the right questions, I help them unravel the complexities they've woven around their goals, enabling them to recognize their brilliance and chart a clear path forward.

B. Embrace Decluttering: Another Form of Simplification

Consider this: what single element could you add—whether it's appreciation, excitement, belief, determination, desire, focus, patience, or silence—to elevate your next endeavor and entice others to join you on the journey?

Just as simplification is key, so is decluttering, another form of simplification.

Imagine eliminating one ingredient from your life—be it excuses, outdated narratives, or the relentless pursuit of perfection.

By decluttering, you reveal the true potential and abundance surrounding you, opening doors to endless possibilities.

Conclusion: Embrace Anne's Recipe for Success




  • You can simply simplify your endeavors and add your unique touch.

  • Decluttering is a form of simplification.

  • Eliminating extra steps in your processes can lead to extraordinary gains.




Keep On Keeping On

There are 2 months before year-end.

Even if you slacked off on making 2023 your best, it is not too late to step up to the plate.

Look at this video and recalibrate; if you have gotten off course or continue if you are moving in the direction of your desire.

Basically, follow my grandmother's advice of…

keep on keeping on.

Look forward to hearing about your experiences.

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Three ways to Live an Impactful Life

I recently had the opportunity to visit the Keith Haring exhibit at the Broad Museum, and I want to share a quote from the artist that was thought-provoking. As I entered the gallery, these words greeted me, "My contribution to the world is my ability to draw. I will draw as much as I can for as many people as I can for as long as I can." Keith Haring


His prescription for living a fulfilling and productive life can be encapsulated in just those two sentences. I believe these words hold valuable insights for each of us, guiding us toward a more meaningful existence.


In my journey through the exhibition, I couldn't help but be inspired by Haring's awareness of what he was here to do. Despite his tragically short life of 31 years, he accomplished exactly what he set out to achieve. His message holds valuable lessons for all of us, particularly in our pursuit of a fulfilling and impactful life.


 
 

Here are three points inspired by Keith Haring's prescription for living a meaningful life: 

  1. Discover your unique contribution: We are all brought into this world with a purpose, but sometimes we lose sight of it or allow others to define it for us. It's essential to set aside time each day for reflection, to listen to your inner voice, and ask yourself, "What do I have to offer? What does the world need from me?" Be still and receptive, allowing the answers to emerge. It may take time and patience, but trust the process. Keep a notepad handy to jot down any inspirations or tidbits that come to you. These could be the breadcrumbs guiding you toward your answers.


  2. Create a plan to share your gift: Once you have clarity on your purpose, it's time to develop a plan to bring your gift to the world. Just as Keith Haring proclaimed his intention to draw for as many people as possible,  aim to share your talents, skills, and passions with inclusivity. In a world often clouded by negativity and division, find ways to reach and connect with a wide audience.  Your mission should not be limited to a select few but should have the potential to inspire and impact the masses. 


  3. Leave a legacy: Keith Haring's commitment to his mission remained unshaken even in the face of adversity. Despite being diagnosed with AIDS, he continued to produce art, ensuring that his creative legacy would endure beyond his lifetime. Similarly, how can you embrace the concept of "for as long as I can" in your own life? Dedicate yourself to your mission, persist through challenges, and create work that will impact others long after you are gone.


While not a lot of the art in the exhibition may have resonated with me, I realized that the important thing isn't pleasing everyone but rather learning and speaking my own truth. He certainly spoke his truth. By sharing our authentic voices and experiences, we have the power to make a profound impact on the lives of others.


 Embark on your journey because it is yours to do.   Explore your purpose, create your plans, and persevere in the face of obstacles. Your truths have the potential to help and inspire those around you, contributing to a more fulfilling and meaningful life not only for you but also for many others.


On my journey back home, I couldn't help but reflect not only on the exhibit itself but also on the remarkable awareness Keith Haring possessed regarding his purpose in life and his unwavering commitment to it. Despite his short life of only 31 years, he achieved exactly what he set out to do.


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Chatting with Gabby Remote Learning

My granddaughter started writing her blog when COVID began and she was confined.   Just found out a few days ago when her mother sent some of her blogs to me.  After reading them, I asked Gabby if I could share some of her writings with others.